Proverbs 12:8 KJV A man shall be commended according to his wisdom: but he that is of a perverse heart shall be despised.

Truth has consequences.   They are good.  Truth takes us where we need to go.
Philosophers and students of the mind and emotion tell me it is okay because it is my personality.  Is it? Is it okay to allow my personality, my inborn human nature dominance?  Truth says, “No”.
The old man, the hidden man, must change to conform to truth exposure. 
Correction,  rebuke,  adjustment, tuning, and calibration with God’s truth brings right alignment of the consequences of my life.